Dating a man in debt
If your boyfriend admits he’s paying off loans, ask him for the total. When people feel attacked, that’s when they’re tempted to start lying.Most of us have made poor financial decisions, so try to be as understanding as possible.
Unemployed, under-employed and low-income men are just not good dating or marriage material in the eyes of many women.
I am fortunate to have a wonderful longtime partner (who, as an educator, knows all about small salaries), but I sometimes wonder what would happen if I lost my job and was looking for love — would I be marriage material (assuming I even wanted to marry again, that is, which I don’t), or even dateable? ); by virtue of my gender alone, yes — I would probably be viable relationship material.
But if I were an unemployed man — regardless of age — would the same rules apply?
Here are some tips for discussing the facts when your partner has debt.
It’s one thing to have ,000 in debt and quite another to have ,000.